"How Do I Overcome Destructive Habits And Preserve My Life?" By: Dr. Shuffel P. Hepburn
You need to watch this video if you have a habit or habits that are destroying your relationships, your career and your life! This simple technique will change your life!
Dr. Shuffel P. Hepburn
4/5/20259 min read

How do I overcome destructive habits and
preserve my life? That's the message. The
text is taken from Isaiah 58. Just after
David was made king of the Israelites, the
Philistines attacked Israel and twice the
Lord gave Israel astounding victories over
them. According to 2 Samuel 22:13, as
the battle lines were drawn in one of
those battles, David
did what seems like a crazy thing.
Something that seemed to make no sense
at all, yet it is astonishingly powerful.
The answer for your deliverance is gift
wrapped in this powerful
story. The king was thirsty and he told
his men that he longed for a drink of
water from the well of Bethlehem.
At this time the Philistines had charge
of Bethlehem and thousands of their
troops surrounded the city and the well
at Bethlehem. But three of David's
mightiest men risked their lives and
broke through the line of the
Philistines to get him a
drink from that well. We have no idea how
many of the enemy they killed to get that
drink of water for the thirsty
king. But we do know that
the enemy could not stop them and could
not prevent them from getting the water.
They drew water from the well and
brought it back to the king. Incredibly
David refused to drink the water even
after they had risked their lives to get
it. He sacrificed the water unto the Lord
instead. He poured out the water as a
drink offering unto the Lord. He said,
"These men have sacrificed their lives
for this water." And even though he was
thirsty he did not think himself worthy
of the sacrifice of their lives. So he
fasted from the water, refusing to use it
to quench his thirst. In one of those battles
the word of God says that
the Lord broke through
the Philistine army like water. And this
is an awesome demonstration of the power
of fasting from something that you want
and even need very seriously. Self-denial
will cause God's anointing and His great
God's anointing and His great power to
break forth in your favor.
Here's how King David
said his help came from the Lord
He said, "The Lord has broken through
my enemies before me just as water
breaks through a dam."
Father we thank you for this word
today and pray your blessing on it,
oh God that you would give
understanding and empower
the listener to overcome those habits
that have troubled them for many years.
Oh God we call forth a victory for the
listeners to this message, in the holy
and the wonderful name of Jesus Christ,
amen. Many churches go on a 21-day fast
during the month of January, almost like
clockwork. Kicking off the new year with
prayer and reflection is a great way to
jumpstart the new season of life. A fast
has tremendous power that will
be useful to the believer Christ
for the entire year. And whether
people join their church fast for the right
reason or not there's no denying the
power of fasting. Perhaps
some do it to lose the weight
that they gained by their out of
control eating during the holidays.
well the Lord has shown me that living a
fasted life instead is an even more
powerful way of life and it brings loads
of benefits to those who do so. To live a
fasted life is a life of daily sacrifice,
giving up your desires for the sake of
others very often and for the sake of
the gospel. The January fast is great but
living a fasted life 12 months of the
year is even greater. Those who
participate in a fast the correct way
are doing something very powerful.
Something that may even save their
souls. For instance during the holiday
season many give away the control that
is essential in their walk with Christ.
By this I mean that as they participate
in the holiday celebrations, it is a time of
eating drinking and partying.
There are many
who put aside their willpower and
go along with the flow.
They end up eating drinking and
frolicking far more than they should
have, and this is offensive to God.
I also believe that these holiday times
can be life-changing times in
destructive ways because it is
a time when some set out on the
road to alcoholism, drug
addiction or even sexual addiction and
never get their lives back. But those who
participate in the fast have an
opportunity to take back the spiritual
ground that they might have lost to the
devil during the holiday time.
However there's something important that
is often left out when fasting. Those who
are fasting
often fail to give away the meals that they
abstain
from to feed those who are hungry.
Scripture advises
us to feed
the hungry, focus on prayer, focus on
reflection and study of the word when we
fast. And this is the way to rule over the
flesh and subjugate it to the will of
God. There is great power in living a
fasted life 52 weeks of the year and
making it a lifestyle change. In other
words live
a
life of sacrifice. This way you never give up
your power and you maintain the control
of your life
at all times. When we give up the control
we
give away the power which God has given
to us. If
we give it up Satan can take a hold of
it and we may never get it back again.
Look around you see many examples of
this. There's a real danger here because
Satan comes to steal kill and destroy
and will take every advantage that we
give to him. According to Isaiah 58 the
people of God were not fasting the right
way so they got no benefit. They
complained that the Lord had not seen
their sacrifice and they said to Him
that they had humbled themselves but the
Lord had not noticed. And then He pointed
out to them that their fault was in the
way that they fasted. He told them that
on the day of their fasting they did as
they pleased, exploiting their workers. He
said they also ended the fast in
quarreling and strife and that they
struck
each
other with their fists. He also accused
them of merely going through the motion
of
bowing the head and lying in sackcloth and
ashes. And then He explained the kind of
fasting that He wanted from them. He
demanded that they do things such as
loosing the chains of injustice, setting the
oppressed
free, sharing their food with the hungry,
providing shelter for the poor and
clothing for
the naked. So here's how you perform this
simple exercise that is guaranteed to
help you get rid of destructive habits.
It is suggested that you begin first not
with the habit that you are trying to
get rid of but with another habit that
is not as destructive or not as
compulsive for you. Start this process by
giving up
something that you really love but yet
can control. Something like a type of food,
drink, internet, TV, hobby etc.
Then make a conscious decision to avoid
one of these for a set number of days, or
at various
times, or do what David did pour it out,
or give it to a needy person, or use your
extra time to help someone. These can all
be
sacrifices unto the Lord. David was really
practicing self-denial when he poured out
the
water. As time goes on you will find it
easier to abstain from the thing that
you've chosen to use in this first
exercise. Each time you do this kind of
fasting you will be gaining strength.
Taking back your willpower and causing
your inner man to know that you are in
control of your appetites, and your
desires. In other words you will be
slowly taking back the power that you'd
given away to
the devil. Soon you will begin to believe
in your
heart that you really can do all things
through Christ who strengthens. You
will soon begin developing confidence
that you can even do without that
destructive habit that has been wreaking
havoc in
your life for so long. And this tells you that
it is now
a good time to turn your efforts toward
this destructive habit that you really
want to get rid of.
When we deny ourselves pleasures
we're actually strengthening our walk in
Christ. We're taking control of our life.
I have discovered that when we pull back
from something that we find great
pleasure in, it causes us to walk in a
greater anointing. Now this message is not
for
those who are greedy for power. It is not
for those
in the world who want to be number
one. And it is not for any who are
seeking fame. But rather this message is
for the simple humble man or woman of
God who have a passionate desire to
please Him. This word is foolishness to
those who are trapped by the things of
the world and have no genuine interest
in pleasing the Lord. When David poured
out the
water he was also invoking the presence
and the power of God to help them in the
battle.
And he understood the power of God in a
way
that very few have discovered even
today. He made a conscious decision to
deny his flesh something essential in
order to please God. Something that he
was really hot for and really needed.
All of a sudden I am sure he felt a
surge of God's power in his entire being
and he began to really feel as if he
could do all things through Christ who
strengthens him. His confidence was
contagious and it spread to his entire
army. This my friend is spiritual power
and is far greater than physical power.
The things that the people of the world
are splurging on every day, celebrating
every day, talking about it in their
conversations and taking great pleasure
in. They are actually the weaker and
useless things that life has to offer us.
Too often we are so caught up in them
that we cannot see how they block the
flow of God's awesome power into your
life. All day long those on the
TV, radio, the YouTubes and the Facebooks
are boasting about these useless
things. And because we have this
insatiable hunger for the things of the
flesh, we find that advertisers are
manipulating us. They're causing us to
spend time and money on that which
cannot satisfy. So self-denial my friend is
the act of
giving up something that you enjoy
participating in. It is the act of
denying yourself the pleasure that you
could get from something that is
pleasurable. And Jesus Christ told us, "If
anyone desires to come after me let him
deny himself and take up his cross and
follow Me. For whoever desires to save
his life will lose it. But whoever loses
his life for My sake will find it.
Therefore we must be willing to put
aside self-interests and take up our
cross and follow after Christ daily.
We will need to express a willingness to
endure whatever may come with the
turf. And walking with Christ, believing
His every word, and bending your will to
follow the examples that He set for us,
even if this involves suffering or death.
1 Peter 4:1 tells us that since Jesus
Christ suffered for us in the flesh and
we are followers of Him. We should arm
ourselves with the same mind that He had.
And if we suffer in the flesh for the
sake of Jesus Christ, then we cease from
sin, is what the word of God tells us.
Then Colossians 3 goes on to say that
when we came to Christ we died and
actually no longer live because our life
is now swallowed up in Christ Jesus our
Lord. When Christ appears again we will
have a new life. And this is the power of
the gospel of Jesus Christ to give us a
new life and a new hope. Here are the
Isaiah 58:6
rewards that the Lord promises us will
break
out upon us if we fast the way He wants
us
to fast. He promises that number one, our
light
would break forth as the
morning. In other words we would be like
a shining star for the Lord. Secondly, our
healing
shall spring forth swiftly. In addition our
righteousness
shall go before us. In addition to that it
says that the
glory of the Lord will be our rare God.
In other words it will follow us. Then we
shall call upon
the Lord and He will answer us. However
He says that
these things will only happen if we take
away the yoke of
oppression, which means if we stop
treating people poorly and unkindly. If we
stop speaking
wickedness and pointing fingers at each
other. And if we feed the hungry and
satisfy the afflicted soul, which means
provide
physical, emotional, and spiritual comfort
to
others. Then and only then the word of
God tells us will our light be as bright
as it is at noon time. And this means that
our
witness and the word of God that we
share will
become believable. Heaven will look down
and smile at you.
Your great faith will be pleasing unto
the Lord. And on that great day He will
say, "Well done my good and faithful
servant." And surely my friend the Lord
will bring a great reward for you. God
bless and keep you in Jesus mighty name,
amen. You've been listening to this
message
and perhaps you do not know Jesus Christ
as Lord and Savior and would like to
make that commitment today. As usual we
want to give you that opportunity. Please
engage your
heart and say this prayer after me. The
prayer of faith
will save you. Father I am a sinner. I am
sorry for
all my sins. Dear Lord I crave your
forgiveness. Thank you Lord for your
patience and for your forgiveness. Today I
invite
Jesus Christ into my heart. Dear Lord
Jesus make
my heart your home. And please give me
the Holy
Spirit to lead me into all truth. I mark this
day because
this is the day that I give you the key to my
heart
and I now belong to you forever. Thank
you Lord
for saving my soul, amen. Welcome friend
to the body of
believers in Christ. We are all here
awaiting the return of the good master.
In the meantime we encourage you to
become water baptized as quickly as
possible. Let your pastor know that
you've committed your life and you want
to be baptized. Begin reading the word of
God
every day. Begin in the book of John then
go to Matthew, Mark and Luke, it is your
daily food, reading audibly as often as
possible, because faith comes by hearing
the word of God. Pray daily, attend at
your local church and one glad morning
the Savior will come and receive us all unto
Himself. And we shall indeed forever be
with the Lord. God bless and keep you in
Jesus mighty name, amen.